by Sandra Veiga   Are you one of those people who tries their hardest to be a good spouse, child, parent, employee, boss, to have good relationships with others and with God, but still feels it’s never enough or feels distressed by this tough task? Do you rarely refuse a favor and end up overwhelmed, with little time for your family or yourself? Have you wanted to say no, but worried about hurting or upsetting others? Have you ever felt somehow abused simply because you have